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Will my likely in-laws agree to our marriage

Will my likely in-laws agree to our marriage

Namaskar, I, Dr Vinay Bajrangi, will address a common query- Will my love partner's parents agree to our marriage? 

Marriage is highly valued, especially in India. Both young and older people hold it in high regard. However, differences in opinions about marriage often arise between young people and their parents due to generational gaps. Sometimes, convincing parents for your marriage becomes a tough task. While young individuals feel free to choose, some parents feel bound by societal norms, traditions, rituals, culture, and religion. In some cases, the parents of one side agree, but the partner's parents are stricter. It takes a lot of hard work and strategy to get the approval of your partner's parents. 

 

Astrology and the likelihood of parental approval for your marriage

Your birth chart can hint at whether you will get your parents’ permission for your marriage. Similarly, by looking at your partner's birth chart, you can know whether their parents will agree to the marriage. Certain houses in the birth chart indicate love, marriage, and happiness derived from it. Positive and negative influences on these houses decide whether parents will agree to the marriage. I study various astrological love and marriage yoga in your birth chart to infer whether there will be a love or arranged marriage for you. Also, if you will get happiness and parental support for marriage.

 

Whether you should marry your love partner?

You might be surprised, but marrying someone you love is not always a good idea. Astrology is called the eyes of Vedas, and it can see what is impossible for an ordinary eye. Love is a nice feeling, but it can sometimes fade away fast after you get married. You've probably heard about people who loved each other but then divorced soon after marriage. Astrology can help us understand why this happens.

In astrology, different parts talk about love and marriage separately. You may have a good time with your love partner before marriage, but there might be problems afterwards. You may feel your love partner doesn’t love you anymore. So, we must carefully study many things to determine if your love will stay strong even after you get married.

 

When can parents say no to your marriage?

Sometimes, parents might not agree to a marriage for various reasons. It could be because of cultural differences, religion, family background, looks, etc. Sometimes, seeking permission of the girl’s father is a herculean task. In astrology, by looking at the chart based on your birth date, an astrologer can guess why your parents might not like the idea of your marriage.

The astrologer can then advise and suggest changes in how you live to improve things. They can even tell you which family member could be causing the problem. For example, if the Moon in the chart is not in a good position, it might mean your mother is not okay with the marriage. And if the Sun is not well placed, it could mean your father is not agreeing. Other planets can also point to different family members, causing issues. You can determine the same things about your partner's parents through their birth chart. You can see whether your partner's parents are fine with the idea of your marriage and, if not, what can be done to seek their approval. 

 

The timing of asking for approval

When it comes to astrology, picking the right time to do things is important for them to work out well. In fact, the right timing of marriage facilitates easy and early acceptance of love partner in family. This includes when you ask for permission. If you ask for approval at the right time, there's a chance they might say yes. Different months have different times that are better for getting good results. So, even if your or your partner's parents don't like the idea of your marriage right now, they might change their minds later if you approach them at the right time according to your birth chart. One can use the auspicious timings as suggested by the astrologer to help building image with in-laws.

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